idk if i ever told u this but back when i was 15 i saw ur mohawk pictures and was really inspired by it and got my friend to shave my head. i got in huge trouble by my parents (and it was worse cause i was a girl) lmao but i just remembered that it all happened cause of u!! u inspired a little girl to live her dreams!! thank u so much
This is the sweetest thing ever. You go girl! It takes guts to pull off that cut. Keep living the dream.
I can talk smart to people all I want about understanding the dynamic of my feelings but under all that I just characterise it to myself as ‘I’m utterly miserable, bitter, exhausted and I want someone to stab me in the throat’.
If someone made a ‘joke’ that caused someone emotional harm, and they sincerely meant no harm, they would never tell that person to lighten up or excuse themselves. They would straight up apologise like; ‘I’m so sorry I never even considered it that way, next time I’ll be more careful’ or ‘I’m sorry my mistake caused you pain.’ If they ain’t straight up apologising, or they’re apologising whilst maintaining their own innocence- that is was still just a joke- then they ain’t fucking apologising.
Peers who choose to be disrespectful or cruel to individuals under the guise of comedy are fucking toxic. Not only do they choose to cause emotional harm but they double the blow through alienating and belittling their victim. I never want to hear someone say to me ‘but it was just a joke’. I’m like. Fuck off. Jokes make people laugh, not cry.